History of Jessie Web Eagar
History of Jessie Webb
Eagar
Compiled by Walter Duane
Eagar
Edited by Mary Jane
Jessie was born to Ephraim Jarvis Webb and Emma Lovina Berry
on November 5, 1908, in St. George, Utah. It was then a small pioneer city in
what was referred to as “Utah’s Dixie”. She was the third child in a family of
seven. Although younger, she was the one to run and greet her father when he
returned from work each night and always showed affection and concern for her
“Papa”. He did make a fuss over her buying ribbons for her hair and enjoying
her happy, thoughtful ways. She loved to be close to her mother a well and
would play with her doll while her mother hung out the clothes. She grew up in St. George and felt secure in the bosom
of her family, which extended several generations of uncles, aunts, cousins,
grandparents and great grandparents, making her a relative in one way or another
to almost everyone in town: the Cottons, Bakers, Miles, Snows, Woodburys,
Jarvis’s, Webbs, and Milnes, to mention a few.
Jessie often went to visit or stay with her grandmother
Lovinia Sylvester Berry, a grand old pioneer who had lost her husband in her
early thirties and raised her five children alone. William Shanks Berry had
been shot and killed by a mob while serving his mission in Tennesse. She
learned many of her lifelong attitudes and values from her grandmother Berry.
Some summers she spent with her up in Kanarraville, where her grandmother still
had a home and property left to her by her husband. She had chores to do such
as milking cows, churning butter, and all of the work that was necessary in
those days to put up fruit and to make preserves, etc. We can picture her out
feeding the chickens or gathering eggs, feeding the cattle and horses or taking
them to pasture.
Lovinia
Nicholson Sylvester Berry William Shanks Berry
Mark Jessie Amelia Phyllis Helen Delilah Max
Children of Ephraim and Emma Webb
Ephraim
Jarvis Webb Emma Lovina Berry Webb
Jessie’s
father, Eph’ Webb, as he was affectionately called. Even by Walter, was a many-faceted
man. He was a good athlete in his youth and especially excelled in track and
field events. I am told he won several first-place honors then. He was a good
student and in later life was very well-read in such subjects as geology, where
he followed his father’s interest in mining and prospecting. He also studied
horticulture and cultivated a beautiful rose garden and fruit trees of all
kinds (even persimmons and jujubes), hybrid walnuts, pecans, almonds, and many
varieties of grapes. During the building of the Hoover dam, he worked on that
project with his son, Jessie’s brother, Mark. Ephraim worked on building the
forms for the concrete, sometimes working from a suspended bucket high above
the raging waters of the Colorado, Mark was expert in splicing cables and you
might say that the steel threads he mended saved many lives according to what
he later told me. Ephraim was full of good humor and always had a twinkle in
his eye. He and Mark were very close and shared the hardships of the arduous
task of dam building along with the times to relax and speculate about mining,
land development, and the events which were leading towards the World War (II).
Ephraim’s sweet character can also be judged from his patience in the care of
his mother-in-law (Grandma Berry) for some forty years or more. Eph was a good
carpenter, skilled in both rough and finish work. He was especially expert in
cutting the rafter for hip and gabled roofs. Walter called on him to help him
when he built the new house for Jessie. Eph stayed in Leeds for a week or more
until that project was completed.
One
amusing story Jessie tells of early childhood is the one about her making a
doll out of a twenty-dollar bill not realizing it was anything but an
interesting piece of paper. This caused her parents no little anxiety as that
was a lot of money in those days and was set aside to make the house payment.
When discovered, all was well as the bill was intact and Jessie learned a
valuable lesson about money. She learned it so well that she was the one
instructed to deliver the house payment each month. She retained the knowledge
of how to make this type of doll even up into her eighties. (see the one
attached to this history.)
At about
the age of twelve, her father moved his little family to hurricane in a small
(three-room) pioneer adobe house. It was from here that he was called to serve
a mission to the eastern states. He had to borrow money to finance this call
and served faithfully for two and one-half years while his little family
survived as best they could, going into debt to E.J. Graff and others (Ben
Blake) for the next few years. When her father came home, he worked on various
federal projects such as the Hoover Dam and Zion’s National Park. He also built
extensive turkey and chicken houses for E.J. Graff to repay his debt.
Jessie also
worked for E.J. Graff in his mercantile store in Hurricane. Here she learned
valuable skills which she later put to good use when she tackled store keeping
on her own, leasing from Graff a store in Leeds, and later as she worked as
postmistress in Leeds.
I will
here copy from Jessie’s journal to give her own story of these early years:
When I
was about two years old, my Mama had a strange dream. In the dream, she and
papa were sitting on the edge of a cliff up Cedar Breaks and she was holding me
on her lap. She had just made me a little, new dress with a ruffle around the
bottom and I was wearing the dress in her dream. She said that in her dream I
started to fall over the cliff but she reached out and barely caught me by the
ruffled of the dress. At that point, she called out, “Oh! I have got her back!”
Papa was
wondering why mother was talking in her sleep and asked her what the matter was.
Then she told him about the dream and they both wondered what it could mean.
She had taken me to bed with her because I was so sick with congestion and high
fever. She said she wanted to keep me warm and watch over me during the night.
The next
day I was still very sick so they sent for Dr. Woodbury to come to see what
could be done for me. He told them I had pneumonia and a very bad case of it.
In those days we didn’t have hospitals or cars so the doctors made house calls
to bring medicine and treat the sick. Both Dr. Woodbury and Dr. McGregor did
all they could for me but they told Mama that if I lived it would be up to the
Lord.
Mother
said I rolled my head back and forth and it worried them as they wondered if I
had the dreaded spinal meningitis. They were about to give up and tell the Lord
to take me because they didn’t want me to be crippled or have mental problems
due to the disease. Papa and Mama had great faith in the Priesthood so they
called upon a good friend by the name of George Worthen to help my father to give
me a blessing. All through my life, I knew if papa gave me a blessing I would
get better. Brother Worthen had to come from out of town so he stayed all night
with us. Mama told him of her dream and asked his opinion as to what it could
mean. He told her it probably meant my life would be spared and I would be
narrowly snatched back from death.
The next
morning the doctor again came to examine me and found that my eardrums had
broken and that my ears were draining out the infection. My lungs were also clearing
out the congestion and I was getting better. The after-effects of my sickness
left me with boils all over my body and some of them had to be lanced which
left scars for many years. I also lost all my hair so mother kept a hood on my
head until it grew back. She said I also had to learn to walk all over again. I
was so weak, later in life when I received my patriarchal blessing under the
hands of brother Worthen, he told me my life had been spared so I could
complete my mission in life and that I had great things to do here.
Jessie Age 7
When I
was still very little (about age seven), Papa was called on a mission. My
brother, Max, was the baby then that made five children, and my mother really
had her hands full. I learned to milk the cow and did the milking most of the
time my father was away on his mission. I didn’t mind this so much, however,
because then I didn’t have to do the dishes.
“I had a
happy childhood in many ways and my parents were always good to me. I remember watching
every noon and evening for my father walking home from work. I loved to run to
meet him and hold his hand as we walked on home. I loved to be close to my
mother also and would play with my doll while she hung out the clothes. I can
remember how white and clean the sheets and all the clothes looked as she hung them
on the clothesline. She was a wonderful mother and a good housekeeper also.
Even though we didn’t have much money, we always enjoyed good meals and clean
clothes to wear. We kept one nice change of clothes and our best shoes for
wearing on Sunday.
“When I
was very little, I liked to make and play with dolls. I made them from hollyhock
flowers. They made real cute little
dolls with eyes, ears, and silk tassels hanging down for hair. Papa would find
just the right ones on his way home from work and bring them home for me. So, I
always had my eyes open for things to make dolls out of such as pretty cloth or
paper. My mother said I even made a doll out of a twenty-dollar bill. My father
had been paid for some work he had done and this twenty dollars represented a
treasure in those days. Mother had put the bill on the dresser and when it came
up missing, everyone was really upset. No one seemed to know anything about it
so it was a mystery. About three weeks later, my mother was hanging the clothes
on the line when she knocked over one of my little playhouses. Imagine her surprise
when she spotted one of my dolls made from a twenty-dollar bill. I had fixed
arms and legs with toothpicks and ribbons so she didn’t immediately see what it
was, but when she picked it up, out rolled the twenty-dollar bill. She never
scolded me for this childish trick, but I got teased by all the family over it
many times after that.
When my
father got ahead a little, he built us a better house and then my grandmother
Berry came to live with us for a while. She had been a temple worker in St.
George for many years and had a small home there. She took a couple of bad
falls off a wagon and broke both wrists. They never healed properly, so she was
more or less crippled for the rest of her life. It was after her wrists were
broken that she came to live with us. She did all she was able to do in helping
us at home and always sang songs to us and told us stories.
Lovinia Nicholson Sylvester Berry William Shanks Berry
In those
days we didn’t have electricity in our homes yet, just coal and wood stoves and
coal oil lamps. I took my turn to clean
the stoves, fill and trim the lamps and wash the lamp chimneys. We made all our
bread and churned our butter from the cream of our jersey cow. In those days
most of the people in Hurricane had very little money, so Papa traded carpenter
work for hay, wood, and other things we needed.
“I had a
crowd of nice girlfriends. We did many things together such as birthday
parties; suppers and nights spent helping each other with our homework from
school. We called our group “Just Us Girls”. Some of them I remember were Hazel
Spendlove, Mable Campbell, Lucinda Hastings, Camella Hinton, and Venera
Spendlove. About this time, I met Walter. He was the brother of Ella Eagar, who
was one of my friends. She arranged for me to meet him and after we were going together,
she went with us a lot of the time.
Jessie (In black)
Walter
and I both played in the school band. He was learning the violin and saxophone
and I was taking piano lessons from Christina Barber Bradshaw. I paid for my
lessons by tending her baby and helping with housework. We played for many open-air
dances together out at the ‘Y’, up at Springdale as well as in Hurricane. Our
high school band and orchestra played in the performance of many operettas under
the direction of Karl Larson. Walter and Ella both boarded with my aunt Emma
Bradshaw just across the street from my house. Walter would work herding sheep
in the summertime and then went to Dixie College in the winter. He came to
Hurricane after that to work for Mr. Graff, so we were both working for him for
some time until our marriage. We went together for about five years and were
married on September 6, 1928.
Soon
after our marriage, we moved to Leeds.
As we had both worked for Mr. Graff, he offered to set up a little store
in Leeds and give us the opportunity of operating it for him.
Walter and Jessie
The Silver Reef mines were still in operation then and he thought a store might do well there. So, we came to Leeds and ran the store quite successfully until the mines closed and a number of people moved away. It was hard times for everybody as the “depression” came on. We were thinking of moving back to Hurricane, but our first child was still little and we had to find a place to live. Our friends in Leeds didn’t want us to move so we made a temporary arrangement to stay in Aunt Mary Sullivan’s old house (the title of “Aunt” was used as a term of endearment for many in those days and didn’t denote any family relationship). About this time the Postmistress of Leeds (Mrs. Olsen) died and with the change of government to the Democratic Party, the postmaster position was to be filled by a Democrat who qualified for the position. Our Leeds friends encouraged Walter to apply for the position by taking the Civil Service examination. He scored high on the test and was appointed Postmaster. We heard that Aunt Becky Angel had a house and lot on the corner from the church which was for sale.
So,
Walter went and talked to her about it and Aunt Becky told him to go to the
Courthouse in St. George and see about the taxes. When he did so, he learned
that the taxes had not been paid for five years. Walter paid the back taxes and
received title to the property as it had fallen back to the county when taxes
were not paid. Walter insisted that they put the property back in Aunt Becky’s
name and paid her little by little, some $500.00. She never knew she had lost the
property and Walter never told her. There was no regular wages paid for the
Postmaster at that time, only a percentage of cancellation (stamps or postage
paid). In such a small town this wasn’t very much.”
Another version of Walter and Jesse meeting
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Jesse
learned to read music and to play the piano more or less on her own (without
lessons) listening in on her older sister’s lessons and borrowing her music to
practice when her sister wasn’t at home. She later had an opportunity to do
babysitting for lessons from Christina Bradshaw, a school teacher who came to
Hurricane. By the time she was in high school, she played well enough to
accompany performances and to play in the Hurricane High’s dance band. It was
here that she met her future husband, Walter Clinton Eagar. He was at the time
boarding with Jessie’s Aunt Emma Bradshaw, who lived just across the road from
Jessie. He was a good musician and a most handsome young man with black hair
and dark eyes. He had a gift for storytelling and always had a funny story or
joke to liven things up. To make a long story short, he began courting Jessie
(against the wishes and advice of her father) and their love blossomed against
all odds and objections, even over the offers of several young men whom her
father would prefer her to marry.
So, she
married this motherless, aspiring young man who had nothing to give her but his
promise of undying love. They were married in September of 1928. Her first
child (Walter Duane Eagar) was born a little less than a year later, August 17,
1929.
After
trying unsuccessfully to make an adequate living in the Hurricane area, the
young couple decided to take a plunge and lease the Leeds Mercantile from E.J.
Graff. So it was the Leeds became their home they were to raise all of their children
there. When the depression days came in the early thirties, they lost the store
as most of the small businesses folded with the crash of the market.
The next
few years were a struggle to survive, but with the election of Franklin Delano
Roosevelt, destiny stepped in to change their lives. They had been able to
purchase an old board and batten house (which had originally been up in silver
reef) with a lot from Aunt Becky Angel and this afforded them a base to apply
for and receive the appointment of Postmaster for Leeds. With the spoils system
still in use, all government offices went to the winning side. Walter, being a
registered Democrat was eligible to take the Civil Service exam to thus apply
for the appointment. This he did scoring higher than several Leeds ladies who
never forgave him for depriving them of this job, as they perceived, even
though it paid so little in those days.
The Post
office was the hub of town activity, even more so than the church or school. It
was the distribution point for all the relief goods provided by the government,
such as meat and flour, etc. It was the gathering place to listen to Walter’s
home assembled radio to hear the prize fights and elections etc. Walter was the
only barber in town. Also, he and Jessie were the only musicians. This made for
plenty of public activity and service as the years went by. Jessie taught many Leeds
girls to play the piano and this legacy lives on in their grandchildren. During
these years, three more children were born: Wendle Roland, July 18, 1931; Ross,
June 18, 1933, and Emma Idonna, November 30, 1934. They were all born in
Hurricane at their Grandmother Webb’s old adobe house, with Doctor Mackintyre
attending.
Life was
very busy and full for Jessie in those depression years of struggle with so
many little kids, the Post Office, and Walter to look after, not to mention
music lessons and church callings (playing music for all church and school
functions).
During
this period, the Roosevelt administration began the CCC or Civilian
Conservation Corps. A large camp was established in Leeds and added to the
economy as well as to the recreation activities of that small town. It was at
this time that Walter was able to procure enough materials (much of it from the
CCC camp) to build a new house. This was completed in the forties during the
Second World War. The old house was dismantled and the Post Office moved into
the new one.
From
Jessie’s writings, she gives this tribute to Aunt Etta: “I want to tell you a
little about Aunt Etta Marriger because our Daughters of the Utah Pioneers (D.U.P.)
camp is named in her honor. She was also our good neighbor. When Idonna, Wendle,
and Ross were going to school in St. George from Jr. High through Jr. College,
they needed help with their lessons quite often. They would go down to Aunt
Ett’s and she would be delighted to help them, as she had been a school teacher
and had many good books. When Idonna was working to earn a scholarship for
college, Aunt Etta helped her a lot by introducing her to good literature and
providing reference material to help her complete her assignments. Aunt Etta
loved to have them come down and play checkers or cards with her and Vivian.
They also enjoyed her talking parrot and spent many happy times there.
“One
more thing about Aunt Etta is when she was very ill at the last. Walter and I
helped with her care until her brother Karl was able to come over from
Hurricane and after some time, it was decided she must go to the hospital and
she soon died there. She was a great lady and her book, The Saga of Three Towns
represents so much research to preserve the memory of Leeds, the Silver Reef,
and Harrisburg in their pioneer beginnings.”
World
events moved with increasing rapidity towards the Great War and with the
bombing of Pearl Harbor we were involved on both fronts. The CCC camps were
closed and the boys enrolled in the army. The old highway #91 was busy both
night and day with army goods and convoys of men and materials to be sent to
the Pacific war effort. Many of the Leeds boys went on their way with Jessie
and Walter’s dance music at the send-off parties for them. Walter worked in Las
Vegas in construction during this period, coming home on weekends. This was a
period of trial for their marriage, but they weathered the storm and again grew
closer through their music and their growing family. During those war years,
two more children were born: Lee Webb, June 11, 1941, and Michael Paul, May 27,
1943.
It seems
that music was the force that brought Jessie and Walter together and became increasingly
the stabilizing influence keeping them together. Their “Eagar Beaver” dance
band became well-known all-over Sothern Utah and adjacent Nevada towns for
providing good music for weddings, open-air dance pavilions, church dances, and
Senior Citizen (Old-Time) dance requests. Walter, Jessie, Duane, Wendle, and
Ross were on the road almost every week providing music somewhere. It didn’t
pay very much, but it was a great experience and built good memories.
The
children were growing up with Duane going on a mission, then into the army
during the Korean conflict. Wendle also served in the Navy during this time.
Both were soon married and began their families. Duane graduated from B.Y.U.
and began a teaching career. Wendle settled in Orem, Utah, and began a long
tenure with Geneva Steel Company. Idonna attended Dixie College and then a
business college in Salt Lake City. There she met and married Edward Snow of St.
George. Edward made many contributions to the developing electronics industry
and eventually held a high management position for E.G.&G. Idonna was his
partner in business and they became very successful financially as well as
having a wonderful marriage and family.
During
the last epidemic of Polio, before the Salk Vaccine was developed, tragedy
struck the Eagar family as Ross, our beloved Ross, who was so dynamic, personable,
and loved by everyone. He was so charismatic, possessed such charm, and was
about to graduate from Dixie College, where he served as Commissioner of
Amusements. Polio struck him down though
his life was spared; he was left crippled and confined to a rocking bed to help
him breathe. Jessie and Walter spared no expense to seek some way to have him
healed. Jessie called upon every man who held the priesthood of high and low
degree to come and give Ross a blessing. However, his mission had been decided
and his course set as he spent the rest of his life (ten years) struggling to
live with his affliction. Unknown to him and beyond his imagination awaited his
guardian angel (Zelda Fish) who came into his life quite miraculously and
married him despite his handicap. Together they developed a successful
insurance business (Farmers Group) and had two lovely daughters. He died on
February 3, 1962.
I will
here enclose the story as Jessie tells it in her journal:
“When we
bought the property from Aunt Becky, we borrowed the money to pay her and pay
the back taxes, so we were very hard-pressed for money to live on for a
while. I decided to try to give piano
lessons because of the good training I had received from some excellent piano
teachers while I was in high school. Some of them were: May Linder, Love Snow,
and Christy Bradshaw. I gave lessons to Sherill McMullin, Relva McMullin,
Coleen Sterling, Laurel McMullin, Carol Sterling, Karma Sullivan, Charlene,
Tana, and Sherlie Sterling along with quite a few others I have forgotten. I
also gave a few lessons to Duane and Idonna.
“In 1935
the CCC camp was started in Leeds. They did a lot of work for the town and
helped increase the Post Office business with so many more letters to post and
all. They improved the road from Leeds to Oak Grove and the campground. They
made ditches and fences and man conservation projects. In six more years, I had
two more babies: Lee Webb Eagar and Michael Paul Eagar. This made five boys and
one precious little girl.
“When
Ross contracted Polio, my life changed a lot. These were the hardest years for
me, as he was so sick and suffered so much. I shed a lot of tears during those
years, going and coming on the bus to take care of him. I had to leave Walter
as well as Lee and Mike (they were still young boys at home then) and traveled
to Salt Lake to the old General Hospital where Ross was first taken for
treatment. He was in an out to the iron lung or on the rocking bed. He suffered
from pneumonia and kidney stones. When he was operated on to remove the stones,
he suffered horribly due to not having any anesthesia (this was too dangerous
because of his breathing problems). I stayed by him to comfort him and help
with his feeding and everything I could for his care. It was hard to leave
Walter and the boys, but I would come home about every two weeks to cook,
clean, wash clothes, etc. Idonna was going to business college in Salt Lake
then. Wendle and Duane were both in the service (Korean War) then, so I was
about the only one who could help with Ross. When the Polio Foundation took
over, Ross was sent to Rancho del Los amigos in California. There he learned
“frog breathing,” a technique that would enable him to breathe without a
machine for a few minutes, but was very tiring. After they had done all they
could for him, he was brought back to Leeds and we again took care of him as
best we could.
“The
first family who came to see Ross after he came home was the Fish family from
Pintura. They brought Zelda who wanted to see him. After that, she kept coming
almost every day. She wanted so much to be able to help him and to do
everything she could for him. She would even climb up on his rocking bed to
comb his hair and rub his aching arms and legs. Walter and I got worried about
this because Ross was getting so attached to her and she was such a comfort to
him. Eventually, we told Sister Fish how close they were getting and asked her
what she wanted to do about it. Her answer was surprising as she said, ‘I am
not going to do anything about it. It is what Zelda wants to do more than
anything else in the world.’
Zelda
relates the following: “One day Bessie and Howard Fish, a cousin of mine went
down to see Ross. Ross told them at that time that if he ever got well, I was
the one that he would want to marry but that he would never ask a girl to marry
him as long as he was in the physical condition he was then. Bessie told me
about this and I was disappointed, as I had grown to love Ross in the eleven
months that he had been home and we had spent many happy hours together. Two
weeks later, after Bessie told me this, I was down visiting Ross. He had no
intention of asking me to marry him but all of a sudden the words were put into
his mouth and he asked me to be his wife. I jumped up on his bed by him and
said, ‘I know that you are going to get well and get up from this bed of
affliction, but even if you never did, I would marry you anyway.’ Ross was
surprised when he asked me to marry him as he had no intention of doing so but
the words were just put into his mouth.”
It
seems that Ross had been prepared for her coming into his life, as he had the
same dream three nights in a row soon after the onset of his polio. In the
dream, a beautiful, dark-haired, dark-eyed girl came to him bringing him cool
water and comforting his aching body by her touch. This was very perplexing to
Ross, as he was engaged to a girl with a very different complexion (blond and
blue eyes). However, after the heartbreak of her breaking off the engagement,
almost a year later he learned the meaning of the dream when Zelda came into
his life, as she became the dream come true! As to how they were married in the
temple and their life together, see the wonderful history that Zelda compiled.
One
incident concerning Ross which was related to me by Mom was the story of the
White Cat. It seems that Mom had a beautiful white Persian cat which she loved
very much. She was a great comfort to Mom, so affectionate and soft. Sometime
after Ross’s death, the cat came up missing. Mom called and called her but she
didn’t return. Then, while searching the back-ditch area, she found her beloved
cat lying there dead. She had been killed by a vicious tomcat that prowled the
neighborhood. As you can imagine, mom was devastated and grieved for days over
her loss. Then one night when she woke up feeling so bad about the cat, Ross
appeared at the foot of her bed and in his arms was a beautiful white cat. She
spoke to Ross but he vanished and she was left again in the darkened room.
However, after this, she was comforted about both of her losses, her dear Ross
and her beloved white cat.
“Sometime
after this, we had the opportunity to go to California to care for Jim Griner,
an old friend that Walter had taken up in the hills deer hunting for many
years. We tried this new life for the best part of a year but could see it was
not the life for us, so we came back to our home in Leeds. We had given up the
Post Office after 33 years of service and now we were ready for another
assignment. It was not long in coming, as we were called to serve a mission in
Florida. Ross was now in Heaven and all the other children were on their own; so,
we accepted the call. We had to sell our farm to help keep us on the mission,
but we were blessed in so many ways and made wonderful friends and choice
memories. We were assigned to the Panama
City Branch where we helped in any way we could, playing music, teaching classes,
or helping with baptisms, visiting the members who were in the hospital, etc.
We loved the Southern people and enjoyed their food and customs. Walter served
as First Counselor to President Brock and 38 people there (14 children and 24
new converts). He did the baptizing in the ocean, as the branch had no baptismal
font. The people were wonderful to us and some have kept in touch or visited us
from time to time when they came through our country.
“Before
we came home, Dr. Arnold called us several times and wanted us to buy his home
in Leeds (the old Stanley Fuller home). We told him we would see about it when
we returned from our mission. He was anxious to sell due to a bad experience
with the renters who had done a lot of damage and left owing him some $4,000.00
in back rent. He had just recently suffered a heart attack, so his wife, Hazel,
was anxious for him to be relieved of this worry. After praying about it, we
decided it was the thing to do even though the house needed so much repair and
all. We ended up having to rebuild much of the house, especially the kitchen
and living room, along with new floor coverings and a new roof. It was not long
after we bought the house that the Arnolds both died, but we had been able to
finish paying for the place before they passed away. We enjoyed living there
but it was a constant job of trying to repair and make the old house livable.
We were glad to be neighbors to Wayne Hafen and his family because they had
been our good friends for many years.
“Ed and
Idonna had been looking for some property to buy in Leeds and they offered to
let us go half interest in buying a beautiful house over next to the East
Mountain. We sold the Dr. Arnold's place and then were able to have a much
better living situation. We had several acres with good water rights and lots
of fruit trees. It was very peaceful and private up against the hill there. It
also had a guest house which came in handy when our friends from the mission
field or our children came to visit. When Alene Allen lost their home to fire,
we let them live there rent-free for several months until they could get on
their feet again. Later on, we rented it to Phillip and Laura Piney, a nice
newly married couple who became like family and were a big help and comfort to
us. They had their first two children while we lived there.
“Our
lives have been rich and full with many wonderful experiences with our dear
family. We now have fifty grandchildren and almost 100 great-grandchildren. We
have had many hard times and our share of sorrow, but we also shared many good
times while playing our music as a family together and serving in the church.
Walter served as counselor to Edward McMullin five years and Ross Savage five
years. He served as Bishop also for five years. He was 30 years a scoutmaster
and Postmaster for 30 years. I was Assistant Postmaster along with him during
that time. Walter served as President of the M.I.A. and of the Sunday School
for several years, and I taught primary and was organist for years. I also
taught Sunday school and the Bee Hive class in the M.I.A. (Mutual Improvement
Association) In Relief Society I gave the Spiritual living lessons and went
visiting teaching. Walter and I did sealings in the temple after our return
from our mission. We also served at the Visitor Center there.
“I want
to bear testimony that I know that God lives and that Jesus is the Christ. I
know that He hears and answers our prayers, not in the way we want sometimes,
but He always knows what is best for us. I love my dear Walter and my precious
children and grandchildren. I have a testimony of the spirituality and wisdom
of our patriarch. They are close to the Lord and through the spirit they give
us our blessings. I was told special
things in my blessings when only fifteen years of age which no one could have
known and things which later came to pass as were promised. For instance, I was
told that my husband would be a prince among the people. I think of Walter
working with the boy Scouts, helping our neighbors, cutting hair, providing
music, helping the widows, taking care of the dead, as well as his service in
the church for so many years. He was indeed a prince among the people.
“My life hasn’t been easy but I have had lots of blessings. In closing this brief history, I want to say that I know I have had a lot to learn and have made many mistakes along the way, but I have tried to live right and help people.
Memories of Jessie Web, from her kids
Duane, Wendle, Zelda, Idonna, Lee, and Mike
Memories from the Youngest Son of Jessie and Walter Eagar
I,
Michael Paul Eagar, am the youngest of six children that were born to Walter
and Jessie. I have a lot of fond, loving memories of Mom and our life in Leeds
and will try to highlight this part of the history.
Picking
up from where Mom finished talking about their wonderful Southern states
mission in Florida, I would like to mention that her family has a great
heritage in missionary service to the southern states beginning with her
grandfather, William Berry, thereby signing his testimony with his blood similar
to what happened to Joseph and Hyrum Smith. Also, I served a mission throughout
Georgia, Alabama, and South Carolina, and had a tremendous outpouring of
success while serving there. My son, Clinton C. Eagar, Jessie’s grandson, is
serving a successful mission at this time, 1997-1998, in Georgia. There have
already been many great converts there will be many more from these missionary
efforts.
While I
am talking about the later years of Mom and Dad in Leeds, I will reflect on
many pleasant memories. Jessie and Walter became very well known for their
music, which they willingly shared with the town and the church and other
communities. During their later years, they formed a dance band called the
Eagar Merrymakers and they played for senior citizens dances as well as
community and church. Mom spent her whole life serving the church and her
community with her music and her sweet charm.
In the
little town of Leeds, we had to generate our own entertainment and at the
forefront of this was always Walter and Jessie providing the great dance music.
Walter and Jessie’s lives were
intertwined with their music and they composed several beautiful songs and
melodies together. I was always so proud of our family’s music and it meant a
great deal to me growing up in a happy, cheerful home accompanied by great
family provided music.
I am
going to go back in time now to my childhood and teenage years and weave in
some of the events and memories. I remember how busy our family was when I was
a little boy with the farm work, the Post Office, our mining claims, the family
dance band, and church and community activities. In spite of all this, I
managed to get into my share of mischief, but fortunately, Mom had forgotten
all of this and thinks that I am her little angel.
She has
teased me a lot over the years about how hard it was to get me to school. I was
very much a free spirit and didn’t want to be contained in the Leeds one-room schoolhouse,
so I would go to the bathroom and crawl out the window and either go home or
over the hill to one of my favorite hideouts.
One of
my favorite memories is our family tradition of traveling up the nine-mile dirt
road to Oak Grove at the base of Pine Valley Mountain. We would travel up there
most every Sunday afternoon after church throughout the summer months and have
a picnic. From living on the farm, we had access to wonderful homegrown fruits,
vegetables and melons, chickens, turkeys, and other produce. Everyone will
remember how good the food always tasted in Oak Grove and the fun times around
these trips. Many times we were in the back of an old pickup or riding on the
fenders of the good old cars of those days just enjoying the great outdoors and
each other. Along this same road runs a stream of water called Quail Creek,
which has several smaller streams that join it. There is Pic Creek, Spirit
Creek, and Columbine Spring. There was good trout fishing up and down this
stream, and so our meals at home and in Oak Grove many times consisted of fresh
trout. Leeds was a great area for hunting and fishing in those days and it was
with great anticipation each year to await the opening day of fishing season
and hunting season. You could feel the excitement of these events in the air.
In those good old days, Lee and I would walk from Leeds a few miles up the
creek most any summer day and could catch our limit of fish. Mom was always
proud of our catch would gladly cook them for us.
She was
a great mom in so many ways. One of which was that she would always send us off
with food to take along on our excursions. We worked hard and we played hard, Mom
and Dad made sure that our lives were full of good, wholesome work and fun. Mom
loved to have a great garden for vegetables and flowers and would spend many
hours tending them. She also loved chickens and they loved her and provided the
family with farm fresh eggs. We usually had some Jersey cows in those years
when I was growing up and I milked thousands of gallons of rich milk which
would be utilized in the family diet. The Jersey milk was very rich in cream
and Mom was a master at making butter, cottage cheese, and all kinds of
delicious pastries using the rich produce from our farm animals. Our family-owned
farm ground in the Connley field area of Leeds and another area called Corny
Town where we also owned a spring. We owned some farmland up in the Silver Reef
area. And we leased farmland in Harrisburg and up above Pintura. I remember
working with Dad and Mom and our family on all of these farms. I feel bad that
these farms were not retained by our family, but at least we have the memories
and the heritage of great parents and a great upbringing.
A few of
the summers during my teenage years, my brother Lee and I worked at the Grand
Canyon National Park. We were following Ross’s tradition from when he worked
for the national parks. By this time in my life, my older brothers and sister
were married and Ross and Zelda were living in Cedar City. It was fun becoming
an uncle many times, as my older siblings started to bring their babies back
home. There were quite a few years in my life when Mom and Dad were very busy
with Ross and the other family members were very busy with their lives. I
became very independent during those years and spent a lot of time discovering
automobiles and girls. Life was a little more relaxed in those days and we started
driving around the farm when we were about ten years old. Mom always told us to
be extra careful (little did she know).
Woven
through the threads of every part of my memory is Mom sitting at her piano
practicing the wonderful music which she loves so much. To know our mother is
to love her. She is the personification of service, love, and a positive,
appreciative attitude. I can remember all of the good things that Mom and Dad
shared with everyone. From their music to their food to their compassion, they
were a shining example.
Lee’s
teenage years were happy. H was popular in school and had a lot of friends. H
had a close call earlier in his life at the occasion of the bad fire out at the
Grape Vine Springs where the Millett family lived. Joe Millett was a house
painter and his house and shed caught fire. We were all out there trying to put
out the fire. Lee was spraying water on some hot tins of paint and they blew
up, throwing the scalding paint up in the air and as it came down it scorched
his hair, face, and hands. Everyone thought he would be badly scarred, as the
burned skin soon stared rolling off from him, but miraculously he healed
without any scarring. Lee loved cars about as much as I did, and so we worked
on cars a lot together and built a few fun hotrods and jeeps. As I recall, Lee
got married at age 19 and moved to Cedar City where he worked for J.C. Penny
Company. He later got a job in Las Vegas and moved his family there and has
been there since that time.
In my
later teenage years, I joined the Utah National Guard and served six months of
basic training in Fort Ord, California. I also finished high school and started
Dixie College and worked at a service station in St. George to earn my own
money. I then took a sabbatical two years leave from the National Guard and
served a mission to the Southern States. When I came home, I finished at Dixie
College, was active in the student body, and was the Homecoming President one
year. I had an opportunity to work part-time for the Utah State Parks and
Recreation helping to restore the Jacob Hamblin home and the Brigham Young
winter home and then helping with the maintenance to take care of these homes.
I had an opportunity one summer to go to Jackson Lake Lodge at the base of the
Teton Mountains in Wyoming and was in charge of installing the landscaping at
Jackson Lake Lodge National Park. This was a very fun summer, and I love to go
back and see how much the trees and shrubbery that I planted have grown.
While I
was on my mission in the South and having grown up in Leeds where the town was
famous for Sorghum production, I got the idea to build our sorghum processing
plant in Leeds. Dad was very good at cooking the sorghum, having worked in this
capacity for the church and some of the farmers in Leeds. Since sorghum was
grown in the South also, I was intrigued to visit some of the plants and to get
some ideas towards updating our production in Leeds. Most of the younger
generation doesn’t even know what sorghum is, but in telling the history of
Walter and Jessie, it would not be complete without mentioning the sorghum
syrup industry, Sorghum is the pure product of the cane stock, it similar to
honey in texture and was used in Mom’s cooking extensively. I think we can all
remember the sorghum candy, peanut brittle, taffy, cornbread, and sorghum, biscuits
and sorghum, hotcakes, etc. I miss it! Dad and I constructed a modern, new
sorghum plant in Leeds and were successful in growing some new varieties and
making some delicious products for several years. Producing sorghum was a labor-intensive
product with not much profit margin. Someday when I retire, I would like to
engineer a sorghum production facility and keep a dying industry alive along
with the sweet memories of Mom and Dad skimming and bottling the sorghum and Mom’s
delicious recipes.
When I
was a lad growing up in Leeds, Highway 91 was our Main Street and it was
interesting to see the automobiles of those days traveling through our town. To
capitalize on this, our family had a fruit stand each summer on the highway and
Mom and Dad and all of us would work at the fruit stand keeping the fruit and
vegetables displayed nicely and greeting the tourists and gladly taking their
money, Most of what we sold was produced on our orchards and farms. If we would
have realized back in those days how fantastic Mom’s pies were, we could have
started an Eagar Enterprises Pie Factory that would outshine Marie Callenders.
We lived
across the lane from the church, and behind the church was ball fields and area
of huge shade trees and lawn. It was the city park. I have fond memories of all
the holidays, like the 4th of July, when the town would have a great
celebration. There would be dances most every night with the Walter and Jessie
band. There were ball games, barbeques, and good times. Walter and Jessie were
great to keep the spirit of our county alive with music and attitude. Christmas
time was always very special. I can remember the feelings in the air at our
home, in our town, and at church. It’s much different today because everything
is so much commercialized. Our family didn’t have much money to spend, but our
gifts were always very special and from the heart, and Mom and Dad made sure
that it was a special time for us.
A lot
has transpired with each of our lives since I was a teenager in Leeds, and it
would be good if we each write our histories as we progress on towards our
mature years. Mom’s life changed dramatically when she lost our father, and she
will no doubt always feel alone until she joins with him again. Mom is living
at the Meadows Retirement Center in St. George now where she can get the extra
care that she needs. She has her piano and xylophone and kitty with her, and
some of us see her almost every day. She is very appreciative of anyone who
comes to see her. She still rocks on the piano and her memory is sharp because
of her lifetime with music. I would encourage all of the family members and
especially the grandchildren, to show honor to this sweet lady by visiting her
and we will all be blessed for doing so. We always need to remember how much
our parents and grandparents have sacrificed and served us, and never get so
busy and caught up in our own lives that we don’t take the time and opportunity
to serve the oldest members of our family in their senior years of need. Mom
feels terribly alone a lot of the time, and it helps her greatly to have any of
us visit. It’s great when any of the family can bring their musical instruments
and play along with Mom. Her memory and personality are brilliant at these
times. For almost ninety years Mom has served and blessed each our lives. It
would be good for each of us to bless her life with a little of our time while
she is still with us. She loves to even get a phone call to brighten her day
(435) 656-1100.
What we
are all blessed with are the cherished memories of our lives together with a
sweet mom and dad who loved us and despite hard times gave us a great life and heritage.
We can be proud of healthy bloodlines and pioneer heritage, and Duane has even traced
our genealogy back to a direct link with Charlemagne and the Kings and Queens
of Ireland and England. I have the happy feeling of gratitude that each of my
five children and some of their children has directly known Walter and Jessie
Eagar.
I Remember Mama (Childhood Scenes)
By Duane Eagar
There
was a cold spring wind whistling around the old house, but inside it was warm
and cozy. I smell the aroma of Mom’s bread coming from the oven; I am curled up
by our black kitty cat who has taken his favorite place in the corner back of
the old coal heater. His purr is comforting and I have a happy, sleepy feeling
that everything is OK.
I know Dad
is out hunting ducks, which have been stopping on our irrigation ponds on their
way up north. I am too little to tag along but I know how good the duck will
taste when Mama cooks it. She calls me to help her churn the butter, so I go in
the kitchen and turn the crank of the churn around and around. It seems endless
but at last little bits of butter appear and I take the churn to Mama to
finish. She works out the buttermilk, which I am waiting for, and pats the
butter into a wooden, one-pound mold. This butter will be sent with me to the
store to trade to Mrs. Allen for sugar, salt, or something else she needs.
Right now, I have my mind on the delicious bread she is taking out of the oven.
I will enjoy a slice with apricot jam and fresh buttermilk.
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It has
been a lazy summer afternoon in Leeds. The shadows are getting longer now and
the sun is slipping out of sight behind the Pine Valley Mountains. I’m coming
home from getting our milk cow from Uncle Don Fuller’s pasture. As I run down
the lane by the chapel (I am always running), I wonder what Mama is doing. Now
I see her working in her flower garden by our porch. She is proud of her four o’clock,
daisies, pinks, and petunias. At this time, the four o’clocks and petunias are
in full, open bloom and the air is heavy with their perfume. The thing that interests me most is the sphinx
moths that love these flowers. It tickles me to watch their long, curled-up
tongues as they try to reach inside the flowers. The hummingbirds are also interesting,
so I stay in the twilight by Mom and just enjoy this time. Daddy came home with
a load of fragrant juniper wood he has gathered up near the Danish Ranch. I got
to help unload it and he tells me about seeing a mountain lion. I am scared
when he tells me about hearing it scream. Then we all go up on the porch to
watch the sunset sky and the cool darkness of our summer night. Wendle and Ross
join us, coming home from their play across the street. It is time to listen to
Amos and Andy on our radio while Mama prepares some bread and milk for us along
with fresh peaches and of course, onions that Daddy likes. After Amos and Andy,
we hear “The Shadow” and then another scary one, “Inner Sanctum”. Now it’s time
for bed and us boys are all in one big double bed outdoors. As we lay there
waiting for sleep, we look up at the stars and wonder out loud to each other
about a lot of things as we trace the big and little dipper and point out the
way to find the North star. The crickets are making their music tonight, and so
we are lulled off to a peaceful sleep with scarcely a dream to remember. The
new day starts early in the summer, especially when you are sleeping outdoors.
I look forward to going over the hill to our little farm in Cornytown. I will
watch the cows, but I also go swimming. What a great life!
***
It was one of those rainy days when
everything seems cold and wet. Mama had a good fire burning in the woodstove,
so the kitchen was cozy. It is still cold, so Mama has our long, white
underwear warming on the oven so we can jump right into them after Mama scrubs
us. “h! How good it feels to put on warm things and then get comfy cozy by the
stove while our Mama fries some scones from dough she has left over from her
baking, They taste so good with butter, honey and a big glass of milk, Now it
is time for bed, so we hurry into our cold bedroom and quickly get under the
covers, Mama tucks us (Duane, Wendle, and Ross) in and we are asleep.
Memories of Mom
By Lee W. Eagar
I
remember many things about Mom while growing up. She was always doing things
for everyone else. Her whole life has been dedicated to helping others, especially
us kids. I remember when I was in grade school; if I needed a present for a teacher
or someone else, she would go to the old cedar chest in the bedroom and get out
something that had been given to her, as a gift. And help me wrap it up to give
to someone else. She never said anything about the fact that it was hers.
I
remember that she would always have some kind of food to give to some of the
old people, or Vernon Joos, a bachelor who lived in Leeds. She would make up
little jobs for him to do to make him feel like he earned the meal.
Whenever anyone came to our house, she always tried to get them to eat
something or take some farm produce home with them. She always spent hours
canning and bottling food so that we would have something in the winter. She
would never let things go to waste. I remember many school mornings of her
bringing up a bottle of peaches or other fruit from the fruit cellar and having
that and some hot bread for breakfast. We would come in from milking the cows
and the other morning chores and Mom would always have the table set for us. My
Dad always said that she was the only one he knew that could go to an “empty”
cupboard and fix a great, satisfying meal, I remember there were times when
money was very short, but she would make “bread and milk and onions” for
supper, and we thought it was something special” because of the way she talked
about it. I remember many winter evenings of her helping us learn to “pull
taffy” or play “Rook” a card game, She loves to play “Chinese Checkers” with
us.
I
remember every winter if we got a chest cold; she would make up a horrible
smelling “mustard plaster” and make sure we kept it on our chest until the cold
was “burned” out of us. She always liked to give us cod liver oil to help our
nutrition. In the spring she made up some “lemon cream of tartar” mix for us to
drink. This was to “cleanse our system”. It tasted horrible, but I guess it did
the job.
She
played the piano very well and gave lessons to many of the kids growing up in
Leeds. Many times, their parents could not afford to pay or they would pay with
a dozen eggs or some cream or other produce. She and Dad and some of the older
kids in the family and other musicians played for dances all around the county.
The “Eagar Band” was famous for their wonderful dance music. She played the
music for the church every week for many, many years. I don’t think anyone ever
gave it a thought. She was just “always” there.
I
remember that she had a way with plants and flowers. She would get things to
grow like no one else. She “loved” them into growing. She “talked” to them and
seemed to know just what kind of food they each needed or when to move them to
the sunlight and then back. She always loved to have a few chickens and a
rooster and wanted to see them scratching around the yard and garden for bugs,
worms, etc. She had a habit of putting out “hummingbird” feeders, just so that
we could watch the little birds and marvel at their ability to fly. She taught
us many things just by the way she lived her life and the way she treated
others. My Dad was the Post Master in Leeds for many years. Part of the front
of the house was made into the Post Office. Mom always was there to help make
sure everyone got served, even at times when she was too sick to be on her
feet. I remember many times when people would order baby chickens through the
mail. The boxes of chicks would be delivered by the big mail truck that went
through town, but many times the people would not be in town for a few days.
She would open the boxes, check each little “biddie” and make sure they had
food and water so that they would stay alive until the people could come for
them.
I only
remember Mom saying something bad about someone once or twice in my whole life.
She always tried to see the “good” in people. Some of them surely didn’t deserve
it, but they were blessed by her anyway.
Mom had
a good sense of humor and enjoyed having a good time with us kids and when she
was playing for dances. People loved to talk to her because she was easy to be
around, and was always trying to make others feel good about themselves.
In
summary, I believe Mom was a “Model” Mother. Many people’s lives have been
enhanced by her love, and her talents and her teachings. Mom sacrificed much
more than I ever realized for the others around her. Her happiness was to see
us be happy.
I love
you, Mom, for all that you are and all that you have done and all that you have
helped me become.
My Memories of Mom
by Wendle R. Eagar
She had
a beautiful, long hair always fixed nice. She smiled at me and had a sparkle in
her eyes. Mom would let us kids raid the fridge or cookie jar any time. We had
freshly baked bread when we got home from school with sorghum or honey. I loved
helping bottle fruit. I would pick berries and then help make jams and jellies.
My favorite was whole peach preserves.
I liked
wash days.
The beat or rhythm of the washer was a fascination for me. Mom would let me put
the bluing pellets in the rinse water.
Mom
would spend all the time I wanted or needed helping me with music.
My mom
always smelled good to me and she wanted us to clean clothes every day for
school.
Mom
saved me from the razor strap several times. She understood me and I would talk
to her and get advice.
I am
positive that our mom is the kindest and the most gentle mother.
There may be other moms like her, but none any better!
My Mom, Jessie
By Idonna Eagar Snow
My mom,
Jessie, has been a continual source of inspiration for me – a guide on how one
should live their life day by day.
My mom
was never unkind to anyone. The unemployed and the needy received the same warm
welcome, with the offer of something to eat, such as homemade bread, at her
door, as the most respected citizen in town.
My mom
loves animals. She would feed and tame every stray in the neighborhood and soon
they would be loved into family members.
My mom
loved flowers. Her gardens of roses, her show of lilacs in the spring, and her
sunny rows of zinnias will always linger in my mind.
My mom loved to cook. The wonderful smells one would encounter upon entering
her home certainly made one feel at home and consider moving in. Her pies and
hot rolls were absolutely irresistible.
My mom
loved music. When perched on her piano bench playing for dances, her show of
energy, her style, and rhythm on the piano made it impossible to sit still. You
had to join in some way. When she played her Chopin Waltzes and church hymns it
made you want to lay back, shut your eyes, and just listen.
My mom
loved to sew. She especially enjoyed making quilts for her children and
grandchildren. These quilts are very special to my children as they make them
feel they will always have a part of their grandmother with them.
My mom
seemed to have infinite time to do all the things she loved. She was never too
busy or too tired to help anyone at any time. I suspect that my mom was given a
day as long as she needed with never-ending energy because she was always
making other people happy.
What a
wonderful example I had!
I love my mom.
My remembrances of Walter and Jessie Eagar
(Grandpa and Granma)
By Grant Eagar
I
remember going with grandpa to work on his mining claims we would pull the
claim out of an old tobacco canister and mark that the work had been done on
the claim. Grandpa would take his Geiger counter out and test samples of
uranium. He shot a rattlesnake with his 22 birdshot. I remember his old jeep
that would crawl along the dirt roads.
I
remember going out to his west fields early in the morning at 6:30 am and weed
watermelons and thin sorghum. We would work until 9:00 and we would climb in
the jeep and have a can of pop and a snack Grandma had prepared. Then around 12:00 when it started getting hot,
we would go back home and Grandma would have lunch for us and Grandpa and
Grandma would take a siesta nap in the heat of the day with the old swamp
cooler running to keep us cool.
I
remember when we would go to the drive-in at St. George and have a hamburger, I
got a queen burger, a root beer, and an ice-cream cone. Grandma and Grandpa
would tell us about life and encourage us to make something of ourselves. The food was good but it came with a fair
amount of preaching and counseling.
I
remember Grandpa on the violin and saxophone and Grandma on the piano and
xylophone. They would entertain us; this was something I wanted for my children
so even though I’m tone deaf I enrolled most of them in band.
One
summer my brother David and I got on a Greyhound bus in Salt Lake and the bus dropped
us off at the exit ramp to Leeds, Utah, it was about ten o’clock at night. I was
eleven and David was ten. I wonder what the bus driver was thinking. As we
walked into town, we felt like we had died and gone to heaven. I could smell
the honeysuckles and flowers and we walked up to Grandpa and Grandma’s house.
They were so excited to see us.
I loved to walk through Gramma's flower garden, it was wonderous. I have tried to recreate the oasis in my own yard. I remember the lunches she served with a little bit of this and that, Pickles and jellies that she put up herself. My grandfather would tell stories and make jokes and make us all laugh.
I remember later as a teenager when I was faced with poor choices, I asked myself, what would grandma and grandpa say if they knew I had done this?
They were not perfect, but they were wonderfully close. I'm proud of the lives they lived and their determination to do what is right and the sacrifices they made for others. Over the years they offered many prayers for their children as well as shedding many tears. I feel sorrow for the tears they shed in my behalf. I aspire to be the kind of a man my grandfather was, down to the sunspots on my arms and the bald head. All I need is some land, an old jeep, and a ratty old hat.
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